Sometimes I wonder if I’m even really made for relationships. As an INTX, I typically function very independently and prefer not to depend on other people. (Though I do love company! I wish I had more at the moment…)
On the flip side, I don’t like to make other people emotionally or otherwise dependent on me because that gives me the ability to hurt them. I can’t stand that idea. Maybe this is all just my naive view on relationships and emotions coming out, I’m not sure. But the idea of creating a mutual dependency is kind of scary to me.
Maybe this is why I’ve avoided relationships in the past? Hmm…
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xngvr reblogged this from thelithiumcat and added:
Yes. Yes I agree with/think all of this as well.
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demonofdiscord reblogged this from thelithiumcat and added:
I can relate to this so much. The “pet” is my potential relationship.
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wingedness reblogged this from thelithiumcat and added:
thelithiumcat I’m in the same boat. The more I think about it, the more I dislike the very idea of being in a...
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thelithiumcat reblogged this from intpthoughts and added:
There are so many things I don’t like about the concept, or that make me uncomfortable about it. I could write quite a...
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